The Tendency of Americans Parents Homeschooling their Children’s
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Homeschooling can prevent children from certain ideologies out there. Now a days liberal woke teachers are encouraging and grooming their students to learn different gender identities. Some of teachers do think they have right to hide the information of their children from their parents. In particular, quite amount of LGBTQIA+ teachers were providing types of books that align with gender affirming. There are books elaborating how gender works, talking about individual pronouns which can ruin the language structure. We can see at the library there’s many books talking about sexuality and trying to convince children that their biological sex isn’t real. Liam Morrison, 12 years old child who got cancelled by wearing t-shirt “there are only two genders”. He was sent home because his opinion’s. Even though he has the right with wearing that t-shirt, but there’s people at school who want him to take it off. On the other case, 11 years old boy has found sexual books at his school’s library. He told his father’s and surprisingly he found other books but it’s not merely sexuality, it’s about gender theory who called “Gender Queer” book. As far as I’m concerned, child doesn’t need those typical books, they just have to enjoy coloring or read fictional animal book which can educate them the morality in society and not forcing them exploring gender fluid and sexuality orientation stuff because they still minor. Quiet often we saw at school there’s drag queen being showed. This is going to contradict the definition because nowadays drag queen as we have known is referring to sexuality show for adult. Drag Queen well-known as gay man wearing woman’s clothes in exaggerate way, they were often talking about sexual orientation even sharing personal stories they had in their circumstances to their audience and the conversation was moving around sexual orientation. We can take an example from Drag Queen Story Hours where they’re reached out the minors at school, the first attempt was in 2015 by Queer author name Michelle Tea. It was not taught children about reading. The main purpose they did that in order to teach minors about being “different” is a good thing. All of us can agree every individual have their own right to do whatever they want to do, but in this case, it sounds vile and horrible thing someone would do to their students. The climax is when we normalize these sexuality topics on minors without any concern is subconsciously it can be easy for pedophiles to sexual abuse them. Personally speaking, it’s unnecessary for child to see grown man dresses in such inappropriate way and teach them the definition of “different” is and it will become humongous issue when there’s no one speak up for the children. We’ve been discussed so many times about this kind of ideologies, then who was allowed them to perfome at school, it will comeback to some of the school’s personnel. Certain amount of the stuff at school were advocating this to happen in order to not be call as homophobic person. It seems some of the teachers want student become woke instead of being intelligent. We saw at college, student got frightened by question: “Can men get pregnant?”. One of them said they will get low grade if they’re talking something conservative. Then who has the responsibility to guide minors the definition and how sexuality works? of course their parent’s. Parents must take a part to inform the child certain subject.
Parents are the first teacher for children. The one of kind problem public school is some of them were not involving parents and let their child engage with vulgar topics. Parents engagement makes it more likely that children and adolescent will avoid unhealthy behaviors and substance use. Unfortunately, these day and age parents are busy at work so they didn’t have time to explain children how to deal or cope certain problem. Whereby, it can lead child to search sensitive topic at unreliable source on internet. This is essential for parents to get involve because there’s many benefits. It could develop self-confidence and motivation, earn higher grades and score in test. The child knows what is wrong and what is right for them. Besides of that, home schooling also provided good environment and avoid children to get bullied by others and it will influence their social life as well.
Homeschooling children it’s not inherently make your child smarter than child at public school, but indeed they had provided the best place for the student paying more attention to the subject matter. There’s pros and cos by homeschooling minors. The definition of homeschooling is when someone’s raise and teach their own child at home with full attention and intention with their parents. It will be a problem when the parent itself wasn’t considered as a good parent or quote on quote abusive. Someone couldn’t do homeschooling if the family structure was already collapsed. It has been torn apart in parenting system so there’s no correlation between the child and their parent. furthermore, it will be major life changing because consciously their parent’s will be willing to spending their times more often to the child. That can lead the family may suffer a loss in income. They also have the added financial cost of homeschooling. While there are many free resources available. Homeschool supplies such as textbooks, books, paper, art supplies, computers, software and other homeschool cost money. Beside of that, one of the greatest benefits of homeschooling is the flexibility in particular to certain subject who maybe he/she is struggling with. They will have more time to learn it without get left behind. Talking about time, there’s issue with managing time especially Millennials and Gen. Z. They spend many times of their lives diving onto social media. These days social media takes a huge part to adapting certain ideologies.
We are now living in centuries where technology is growing massively. A lot of people are engaging with phone most of the time. There’s so many apps or platform for influencers share their opinion’s. In particular, TikTok is the one of the most platform many people often used. Many chaos happened on there as well. We have seen a person sharing things and make the reader questioning if he/she has any kind of disease instead of going to the doctor. On the other side, some of them have victim syndrome where they acted like the most miserable person on earth so they demand to be specialized more than others. Sometimes I got frightened by seeing woke and grooming person on there because they subconsciously planted the idea either deny or contradict the science. The wild thing someone said on there was biological sex is not true, how to disrespect elder. Maybe we will laugh at it and think they are delusional, but what about the children who saw that page, it’s going to change their mind immediately because they didn’t know the information is not valid. Jeffrey Marsh, he was trying to talk directly towards children and make them disassociate with their parents. Talking about pronounce was the most important thing for them. I had personal perspective about pronounce, if they look like man, I will call them he/him and if they look like woman, I will call them she/her because subconsciously my mind will recognize the pronounce by seeing the appearance, that simple. It’s so dangerous letting those type of people lurking around social media and spread invalid information. If you had issues that you can’t handle by yourself, I would suggest to go to therapist who was licensed and not finding the answer on social media cause some of them are myth.
At the end, it comes back to their parent's choices, where should their kids learn from. It’s also parent's responsibility to make sure their child's is not getting certain bad indoctrination. However, it’s not considered as obsession to other people children but it was essential for our generation to lead youth because they will be the next citizens who grows and leads the country we're living in. Perhaps, if it was not the child learning method, then we should not force them to do homeschooling. Each of kids have different studying style and it depends on themselves. But we couldn’t deny that one of the effective solutions is by homeschooling minors because as I’ve been elaborated at the previous paragraph, it will might be addressing certain issues that have been appeared in our society like gender ideology, bullies, parents who’s not got involved at school. We can acknowledge America has free speech for any kind of individual, but it doesn’t mean we should make children engage into sensitive nor nuance topics and make them confused about themselves.
We can move and see an example from someone got severely verbal bully by their classmate. He was crying and ran to the toilet. There’s no one come to ensure his secure, even the teacher. I’m not saying all teachers are not capable handling their students, but there’s still teacher saw this as student was joking with the others. I would assume bullies also got spoken down upon or abuse by someone who close to them so they think they have the right to projecting all of that to their friends. It will become worst when the victim not reach out or speak for themselves because they got intimidated by bullies. They won’t brought up the issues to their parents either. The issue in here, there’s so many students need to be handle by teachers. On elementary school there’s 30 plus students in the classroom. Homeschooling might be the solution for child out there because the parent will have one hundred percent control and monitor and there’s no gap between both of them. According to the data, approximately 20% of US students age 12-18 experienced bullying nationwide in 2017. Bully is one of the kind social problems at school. Personally speaking, the student social life it depends on their environment. They will need secure place for them to learn certain things. Homeschooling doesn’t make child to become antisocial or get awkward when it comes to communicate with others. Children can attend social organization at particular areas. It will improve their abilities to communicate, interact, and cooperate with amounts of people which adult or child with the same age. Homeschool children can also get versatile social activities by seeking it nearby the house area or neighborhood and held certain agenda for their children. The parents and children can plan to go to museum, workshop, public’s library. Minors could attend extracurricular like art classes, sports, chess club or the other things that align with the child’s hobbies. We can make them participate with enjoy and willingness. Maybe people in the area hiring volunteers for charity events and allowing minors to take a part of it. It can cultivate and improve the communication skill and get many lessons from the people in organization. I offer a solution by gathering homeschool children to house or playground, whereby all of them would likely to interact and share the experiences under the same circumstances. The other example is to guide them how to manage their money’s because the problem when they become teenager or an adult if we don’t teach them basic economic subject, they will not aware about when and where should they spend and not waste those money. It’s important for youth to know how to survive in modern society because the whole core reason why parents make their children went to school was for preparing them engaging and blending in society as a good citizen in the first place. I would suggest to homeschooling children as a one of good options, yet still there’s lack but we can get a lot of the benefits of homeschooling.