Unfavorable Friends and Indecisive Parents
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Modern era leads youth generation to become more opening and willing to study certain particular problem around the globe. Especially Gen Z who were engaging in acceptance movement such as LGBT+ community. These are certain amount of reason how this could affect teenagers; Social media platforms with vulgar and vile users, misinformation in the news establishment, and the friends around adolescent are also influencing them powerfully. Quite often we have seen so many teenagers were advocating or imposing others to belief their feelings. Even though we understood that teenagers are not fully develop and the dynamic of their emotions are fluctuating, yet their peers were still convincing their “true identity” is valid. Thereby, it will become social contagious if teenagers are grouping without giving themselves time to have their own opinions. The climax of the over acceptance is lack of control to their emotions. Parents could not be able to straighten their children if those belief had been embedded in the first place.
A child has the desire to transition due to the parents are easygoing towards their children. They have been taking away the boundaries between what should child is doing in their age and what they are should not. Those types of parents are always bringing suicidal thought to adjust their action. As far as I am concerned, the parents should take the responsibility by supporting nor taking them to therapist whom either neutral or not bias. Gender Affirming Care should not be option for addressing the hesitation whether or not they have Gender Dysphoria. I would argue, GAC is collaborating with medical establishments in order to harvesting more money by promoting self-acceptance on social media, everlastingly affirm their identities, pronouns, giving consent for using whichever bathroom, funding the pride parades. However medical altering surgeries is a life changing decision. Many establishments have been created documentaries concerning the malfunction of somebody’s body parts because of the surgeries.
We have seen a lot of documentaries regarding adults whom were taking surgeries and they were not contented with those surgeries whereby it is triggering the addiction by getting surgeries because of the sense of lack from any individual references. In addition, beauty standards have been significantly evolving in these day and ages. whereby makes them feel insecure within the body even though they had taken so much surgeries in such a young age. In my opinion, those children whom labeled as Trans kid merely seeking validation from their parents. I saw many of them do not have dad figure, lack of love from their parents, have been bullied at school, and so many layers of trauma and mental health issues for them to handle with. For instance, Montana parents, Mr. and Ms. Kolstad have lost their custody because they were refused the idea of their daughter to become a boy. Jennifer, 14 years old girl had been friends with other students whom take a part in the LGBT+ community before she decided to take the firm action in order to become the opposite gender. She was threatening her parents with suicide and call social department or in particular Child and Family Services due to get consent for transition. She described her circumstances by describing her parents’ atrocity towards herself. Although, CFS was already checking her parents’ house and the result has showed the house is eligible for someone to live in, yet some of the CFS personnel still believe in Jennifer testimony’s and they were taking away from her parents. None of the evidences indicate the abusive nor harass happen in there either, her parents just did not affirm their child new identities. As a result, Todd Kolstad and his wife were losing their custody’s. Therefore, Parents and peers should be home when someone in their relative is in their rock bottom.